My Fiancé Humiliated Me in His Wedding Vows — He Regretted It Later
As Emily walks down the aisle, she feels as though she is finally living her wedding dream. The dress is perfect just like the venue, music, and her groom. Until it’s time for the vows when Jason completely humiliates her in front of everyone. But later, he gets a taste of his own medicine.
It was the day that I had been waiting for. After months of wedding planning and dieting to fit into my dream dress. This was the moment.
Bride walking down the aisle | Source: Midjourney
“Come on, darling,” my father said, holding out his hand, ready to walk me down the aisle to Jason.
“How do you feel?” my father asked me, kissing my forehead.
“Happy,” I said simply. “I’ve been dreaming of this moment for years now, Dad.”
We walked down the aisle to soft music that I had chosen months ago. The guitarist perched on a wooden stool.
A bride and her father | Source: Midjourney
“You look beautiful, Emily,” Jason said, taking my hand from my father.
The ceremony began with the priest talking about love and commitment, just as he had told us he would.
“It’s time for the vows,” the priest said, smiling at us both.
“Jason, you are my best friend, and I’ve always wanted to marry my best friend. I promise to support you, to always laugh with you, and to grow with you. I vow to be faithful and cherish every moment we have together. In this life, and the next.”
Bride saying her wedding vows | Source: Midjourney
My sister sighed next to me, wiping away her tears.
“Jason,” the priest said. “It’s now your turn.”
Jason looked at me and smiled, and then he turned to his groomsmen, causing them to snigger.
A bridesmaid crying at a wedding | Source: Midjourney
“Emily, my love,” he said. “I promise to always be there for you, even when you’re nagging me to take out the trash because you think the house smells.”
Jason’s groomsmen chuckled.
“And I’ll always hold your hand, especially when we’re walking through spider-infested areas because we all know how much you love those eight-legged critters.”
The groomsmen laughed louder. Some of our guests joined in.
Groomsmen laughing | Source: Midjourney
And still, Jason continued.
“I vow to remind you to pick up your dragging feet when you walk, so we can avoid another trip to the emergency room like that time you tripped over absolutely nothing. And to taste all the burnt lasagna in the world because that’s your signature dish.”
The more Jason spoke, the more embarrassed I got.
Groom reading his vows | Source: Midjourney
I frowned at him, hoping that he would understand that there was nothing beautiful or romantic about his words. But he ignored me and continued.
“Also, I will tolerate your singing in the shower. It may sound like a cat in distress but at least it makes me appreciate good music! And most importantly, Emily,” he said.
“I promise to forgive you for basically forcing me to propose to you after you left those bridal magazines all over the apartment.”
My jaw dropped.
A woman in the shower | Source: Unsplash
I didn’t know how to react. Jason’s groomsmen were all but falling over each other with laughter.
“Really?” I whispered to him.
Jason winked.
“Now, it’s time for you to exchange rings,” the priest said.
Jason’s niece came up to the altar with the wedding rings tied onto a little cushion that she clutched tightly.
“Here you go, Aunty Emily,” she said nervously.
A little girl holding a ring cushion | Source: Midjourney
“Thank you, sweetheart,” I said, taking the rings from her.
Holding the rings, I realized I didn’t want to put Jason’s ring on his finger. We were married now, all but for signing the registration book.
But after hearing Jason’s vows, I didn’t know if I wanted to be with this man.
“Give me your hand,” Jason said, pulling my hand.
He slid the ring onto my finger and held his hand out for me to do the same.
A bride putting on the groom’s wedding ring | Source: Unsplash
My stomach turned. Suddenly, my dream bubble had burst. Nothing felt as it had moments before.
“Jason, you may now kiss the bride!” the priest exclaimed.
Jason grabbed my waist and pulled me close to him, his other hand gripping the back of my neck. He kissed me without passion or feeling.
A couple kissing at the altar | Source: Midjourney
“What on earth was that?” I asked Jason when we were doing our photographs before the reception.
“What do you mean?” he asked, frowning.
“Your vows,” I said. “They were insensitive and embarrassing.”
“No! They were cute!” he said. “I kept them true to us.”
A bridal couple talking outside | Source: Midjourney
“You basically told everyone that I’m a nag and clumsy. And that I forced you into marrying me.”
I crossed my arms and waited for some kind of explanation.
“Oh, come on, Emily,” he said. “Everyone was laughing. It’s not as deep as you’re making it. Let’s just do this photoshoot and go back to the party. I am starving.”
I bit my tongue. I didn’t have it in me to fight.
A smiling groom | Source: Unsplash
At the reception, Jason truly let himself go. He went overboard with the drinks and ate enough steak and potatoes to make anyone sick to their stomach.
“Mom,” I said, kneeling next to my mother before the formalities began. “I don’t feel good.”
“What do you mean, sweetheart?” my mother asked.
“Jason…” I said, my voice trailing as the weight of my uneasiness set in. “Those vows were nothing but an embarrassment.”
“Maybe it was just nerves, Emily,” my mother said. “You know how Jason can be sometimes.”
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“I don’t know, Mom,” I said. “I just feel like the magic has escaped.”
Soon after, the emcee got up and began the formalities. Jason’s brother stood up and spoke about how we met and his first impressions of me.
“I didn’t think Emily would stay!” Jackson laughed, his beer bottle in his hand. “But I guess she knows how to deal with my brother.”
It went on and on, and my husband ate up his brother’s words, chuckling loudly.
A man giving a speech | Source: Midjourney
Then, it was time for my father-in-law’s speech.
“Ladies and gentlemen, I have a few words to say to my son and his new bride, the lovely Emily,” he said.
I held my breath. I had always gotten along with Robert, and he had always treated me well. But I had thought the same of Jason until his vows were said.
A man giving a speech | Source: Midjourney
I didn’t know if I had to prepare myself for something from Robert, too.
If I had to be honest with myself, I just wanted to run away. I didn’t feel like a bride. I didn’t feel much like anything. I didn’t even feel like myself.
I wanted to rip off my wedding dress and get into my comfiest pair of sweatpants. I wanted to cry.
A bride feeling sad | Source: Midjourney
“Jason, do you know what makes a marriage work, son?” Robert asked.
“Uh, love? Attraction? Chemistry?” Jason said, faltering.
Who on earth is this man? I wondered to myself.
“It’s respect,” Robert said, shaking his head. “It’s about cherishing your partner and never making them feel small or embarrassed. Today, you turned your vows into a series of jokes at Emily’s expense. That was not only inappropriate but also deeply hurtful.”
A groom looking upset | Source: Midjourney
I glanced around and saw some of the guests were shaking their heads.
“To teach you a lesson, Jason,” Robert continued. “I’m going to share something about you that you might find equally embarrassing.”
“What? Dad! Stop!” Jason said, standing up.
“Jason still sleeps with a nightlight. He says that it’s because he likes to read in bed, but we all know that it’s because he’s afraid of the dark.”
A nightlight next to a bed | Source: Midjourney
Laughter erupted through the room.
“And let’s not forget about the time when Jason tried to cook for Emily and set off the fire alarm because he didn’t know that normal people don’t put metal in microwaves.”
“Dad, just stop it,” Jason hissed.
“Or about the time when he got drunk after a party, and insisted that he needed to sleep on the floor in my bedroom.”
The crowd laughed louder.
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“I shared these stories not to embarrass you, Jason. But to show you how it feels. Humor at someone else’s expense isn’t funny, it’s cruel. You need to understand the consequences of your actions.”
I smiled at Robert, finally feeling seen.
“Emily, on behalf of my son, I apologize. Jason still has a lot to learn about being a loving and respectful partner. But I know that he can do better, and I hope you give him the chance to prove it.”
A smiling bride | Source: Midjourney
“I’m so sorry, Emily,” Jason said from beside me. “I thought I was being funny, but I see how ridiculous I was being. Give me another chance.”
“Fine,” I said. “But it’s going to take more than just empty words to fix this.”
I want to give us another chance, but something still feels very off.
A close-up of a groom | Source: Midjourney
What would you do?
Juliet Mills, 82, remains happily married to Maxwell Caulfield, the “Grease” actor who is 18 years her junior. Their enduring love story has stood the test of time.
At 82, veteran actress Juliet Mills has been happily married for over 40 years to Maxwell Caulfield, who is 18 years younger. Their relationship, which began in the entertainment industry, faced skepticism early on due to their significant age difference. Mills, who first gained attention as a child star, recalls their meeting as a moment of instant connection, describing it as love at first sight. Despite public doubt, they’ve built a strong, lasting relationship, which has stood the test of time.
Mills’ career took off in the 1960s with roles in movies like The Rare Breed and the TV series Nanny and the Professor, which brought her widespread recognition. She later met Caulfield when they were cast together in a U.S. tour of the award-winning play The Elephant Man. In the production, Caulfield played John Merrick, whileportrayed Mrs. Kendal. It was during this time that their friendship blossomed into a deep romantic connection.
In interviews, both Mills and Caulfield have spoken openly about their “instant attraction” and deep psychic bond. Caulfield has shared how their relationship felt “full-blown” from the beginning, and Mills agrees, reflecting on how it seemed like they had known each other in another life. Their first date was a memorable evening seeing Betrayal on Broadway, where they were invited by Mills’ friend, actress Natalie Wood.
Despite their obvious chemistry, when the couple married in 1980, many doubted that their union would last, especially given that Caulfield was just 21 at the time. The age difference drew attention from the media, but the couple remained unconcerned. Mills has often said that living in California helped them avoid much of the public scrutiny.
More importantly, those closest to them, including Mills’ father, fully supported their relationship. He told his daughter, “Age is irrelevant when you find someone you want to share your life with.”
Their relationship has endured not just because of their love, but also because of their shared interests and respect for each other’s careers. Caulfield, who gained fame with his role in Grease 2, has always admired Mills’ talents and accomplishments, which include a successful theater and television career. Over the years, they have both remained active in the entertainment industry, continuing to work and support each other through different roles.
Juliet Mills looks back at her career with pride, but she is just as proud of her personal life and the bond she shares with her husband.
After four decades of marriage, Mills and Caulfield have proved that their love transcends the age gap and the expectations of others. They continue to inspire with their enduring love story, showing that a deep connection and mutual respect are the true foundations of a lasting relationship.
Juliet Mills and Maxwell Caulfield have proven time and again that age is just a number when it comes to love. After facing public doubt and skepticism early in their relationship due to their 18-year age difference, the couple has now silenced their critics. Mills, who had been married twice before, never felt the age gap between her and Caulfield, describing him as romantic, protective, and her best friend.
Caulfield took charge of planning their wedding, arranging a sunrise ceremony on a cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean at Point Dume in Malibu. The intimate reception that followed at Mills’ Beverly Hills home was decorated with fairy lights and archways, making it a magical and unforgettable event.
His romantic gesture during the proposal involved releasing two doves from his tuxedo pockets, a reflection of his deep affection for Mills. “She brings out the romantic in me,” he said.
In a recent interview, Caulfield expressed how Mills, his wife of over 40 years, has kept him youthful and vibrant. The couple remains active in public life, and in April 2017, they attended the classic #ENOCarousel event together. Caulfield posted a joyful photo of them online, and fans were quick to comment on their enduring love. “What a lovely photograph!” said one person, while another added, “You two lovebirds look great!”
Even in 2013, Caulfield shared a sweet snapshot of them with the caption, “Right side up!” Fans flooded the comments with compliments, calling them a “lovely couple.”
Through all the ups and downs, Mills and Caulfield have shown that their bond is unshakeable, defying the odds and proving that true love can thrive despite an age gap or public scrutiny. Their romance remains a shining example of deep companionship and enduring affection.
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