Elliot Costello’s life was drastically altered in a way he never would have imagined in 2013 after traveling to an orphanage in Cambodia.
He was unaware, though, that a meeting would occur that would alter thousands of other people’s lives as well.
It all began in 2013 when Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello got to know a young child named Thea.
The 10-year-old girl, Thea, had been saved from a horrible situation, but regrettably, she had wound up in an orphanage. She had been sexually and physically abused for two years, and the torture had a lasting effect. Regretfully, if Elliot hadn’t existed, we might never have learned about this courageous young girl.
However, let’s start at the beginning.
Thea’s life was happy once she was born. The Cambodian girl was loved and cared for by her mother, father, and other family members just like any other child. Unfortunately, fate had other ideas for her. Her father unexpectedly passed away one day, and his loss was tragic in many ways. Not only had it been a painful and emotional experience, but Thea’s father had been the only provider for the family. The family was left in dire straits after his death.
When things became so awful for Thea, her mother had to make the painful choice to place her daughter in an orphanage since she was no longer able to care for her. Sadly, the little girl would end up spending a miserable life there.
The director of the orphanage allegedly sexually and physically abused Thea every day for two years, according to Polished Man.
Thea was eventually moved to another Hagar International-run orphanage in Phnom Penh. Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello became close to the boy during a visit there by playing games of naughts and crosses. The 10-year-old child, in spite of everything she had experienced, exuded happiness and optimism.
Thea used to constantly have nail polish on her tiny nails, so one day she wanted to paint Elliot’s. They had a great time together as they sat and chatted.
“I promised her that I would always remember her and her suffering,” Elliot remarked as she painted one of his nails
Elliot was inspired to try and modify men’s behavior after meeting with Thea in order to reduce the number of children who experience sexual abuse. In order to demonstrate support, he also came up with the idea to launch a trend where males paint their nails.
Another symbolic interpretation of painting one nail is that it stands for the one in five children who may experience sexual abuse. It is immediately clear from looking at the numbers that we must put in a lot of effort to solve this problem.
Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults involve minors who are 17 years of age or younger, according to the YMCA. Unbelievably, one in six boys and one in four girls will experience sexual abuse before they become 18 years old.
Elliot believes that since men account for over 90% of this kind of abuse against children, they should be the ones to drive change. In light of this, a large number of international superstars have joined the nail painting craze.
Polished Man is still working to provide a better, safer environment for children today. Their principal goal is to stop child sexual abuse. “Being a Polished Man means challenging violent behavior and language, both locally and globally,” the organization states.
Chris Hemsworth is one well-known person who has taken a strong stance; he posed for the organization with a painted nail.
It takes more than just remembering to purchase flowers, shouting rounds, or lifting a lot to be a @PolishedMan. Saying no to violence against children is the main goal, according to Hemsworth.
Famous surfers Kelly Slater and Zac Efron also participated in the social media challenge, and maybe more people will openly speak out against child abuse.
Although the campaign began quietly a few years prior, by 2014 it had drawn the interest of numerous prominent media outlets.
The organization has persevered in its hard work and has now existed for a decade. Polished Man claims that $8.7 million has been raised to fund trauma prevention and recovery initiatives for women and children who have experienced or are at danger of experiencing violence in Australia and other countries.
I Saw a Lost Child in the Airport — What He Had in His Backpack Made Me Gasp
When I saw a young boy wandering alone in the airport, I couldn’t just sit there. He was scared and clutching his backpack like it was all he had left. I offered to help, but what I found inside his bag left me speechless and set off a chain of events I never saw coming.
Sitting in an airport terminal for four hours will test anybody’s patience. I’d already drained my third cup of coffee and was seriously considering a fourth when I noticed a kid, maybe six, wandering through the crowd.
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He seemed kind of… lost. There was no frantic parent chasing after him, no one calling his name. Just him, a tiny figure adrift in a sea of travelers.
After a couple of minutes of watching this kid stumble past people without a clue where he was going, I couldn’t shake the knot that started twisting in my stomach.
His eyes were wide, almost glassy, like he was on the edge of tears but trying to hold it together. I knew that look. Hell, I’d worn that look enough times as a kid.
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I stood before I even realized what I was doing. Some instinct kicked in, I guess. I wasn’t the ‘good Samaritan’ type, but I couldn’t just sit there while this kid wandered around scared out of his mind.
“Hey, buddy,” I said, keeping my voice low and non-threatening. God knows the last thing he needed was some random guy freaking him out. “You alright?”
The kid stopped, his tiny body stiffening. For a second I thought I’d blown it and he’d run away or scream or something.
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But he just stood there, clutching the straps of his backpack like it was the only thing keeping him tethered to reality. He shook his head, slow, eyes downcast but too proud, or too scared, to let the tears fall.
“What’s your name?” I asked, crouching down a bit so I wasn’t towering over him.
“Tommy,” he whispered, voice barely audible over the background hum of flight announcements and airport chatter.
“Well, Tommy,” I smiled, trying to sound as friendly as possible. “Do you know where your parents are? Or maybe you have something in your backpack that can help us find them?”
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He looked up at me with these big, watery eyes and nodded, then slowly unzipped his backpack and handed it to me without a word.
I’ll tell you right now, there’s nothing more heartbreaking than a kid who’s too scared to even ask for help but desperately wants it anyway.
I opened the bag, expecting to find a boarding pass or something. Just a quick look, I thought, and I’d be able to hand him off to airport security. Easy, right?
Wrong.
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Mixed in with a few snacks and some clothes, I pulled out a crumpled airline ticket. My hands froze and I gasped when I read the boy’s last name.
Harrison. My last name. I was about to dismiss it as a coincidence but then I looked at Tommy again. Something about his eyes and nose, and the set of his chin was way too familiar, but that was ridiculous. I don’t have kids.
Hell, I barely had family left these days, let alone some random six-year-old with my last name.
A child in an airport | Source: Midjourney
I swallowed hard and handed the ticket back to Tommy, my hands trembling a little now. “Tommy,” I started, my voice softer, “who’s your dad?”
He shifted on his feet, clearly uncomfortable. “He’s here… at the airport.”
Okay, that wasn’t helpful. “Do you know his name?” I pressed gently, not wanting to spook him but needing more than just vague answers.
Tommy shook his head again, eyes flicking nervously toward the crowd. “He’s my dad,” he repeated, like that cleared everything up.
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Great. I couldn’t just leave him with that. My brain was working overtime now, trying to piece together the impossible coincidence of the name on the ticket. And then it hit me, like a wave of cold water crashing over my head: Ryan.
My brother. My damn brother. I hadn’t thought about him in years, not since he disappeared from my life like some magician pulling the ultimate vanishing act.
One day he was there, and then he wasn’t, leaving behind nothing but a whole lot of anger and unanswered questions.
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“Okay, let’s go find security so they can make an announcement and help you find your dad, okay?” I straightened and held out my hand to Tommy.
He nodded and off we went. I tried to put thoughts of my brother out of my mind as I guided the boy across the terminal, but I couldn’t shake the thought that he was connected to this child.
Maybe that’s why it took me a minute to realize the man rushing toward us wasn’t a figment of my imagination. Ryan looked different, sure. He was older, more haggard, but it was definitely my brother.
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Ryan was scanning the crowd like a man on the verge of losing his mind, his eyes wide and frantic, searching for something. Or someone.
“Dad!” Tommy tugged on my hand, his voice pulling me out of my stupor. He tried to let go of my hand, but I was frozen.
It took me a second to process what he’d said. Dad.
Suddenly, Ryan’s eyes locked on us. I saw the exact moment he registered what he was seeing, me, his estranged brother, standing with his son.
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For a split second, his expression shifted from panic to something like disbelief, maybe even shock. And then he started walking, more like jogging, straight toward us.
As he got closer, I noticed the dark circles under his eyes and the lines etched into his face. He wasn’t the cocky, carefree brother I remembered. He looked… worn down. And, honestly, that softened me a little.
Not that I was ready to let go of all the bitterness, but it was hard to stay angry when he looked like life had already beaten him up.
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“Tommy,” Ryan said, his voice shaky with relief. He grabbed Tommy by the shoulders, pulling him into a quick hug before stepping back.
His eyes darted between me and Tommy, like he was trying to make sense of the situation. “I-I can’t believe… thank you for—” His voice trailed off, unsure, awkward.
I nodded, still trying to get a grip on my own emotions. There was this thick, uncomfortable silence between us. Years of not speaking, of unresolved anger, just hung there in the air like a weight pressing down on both of us.
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“You’re welcome,” I finally managed to say, though the words came out stiffer than I intended.
Ryan glanced down at Tommy, then back at me. He looked… I don’t know, cautious. Like he didn’t know how to act around me anymore. And maybe he didn’t.
“Didn’t think I’d see you again,” Ryan said quietly, his hand resting protectively on Tommy’s shoulder. His words weren’t exactly dripping with warmth, but there was something in his tone that almost sounded like regret.
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“Yeah, well, same,” I muttered. “Is he… my nephew?”
The question slipped out before I could stop it. It felt like my heart was lodged in my throat, and I immediately regretted how blunt I sounded.
Ryan froze, his eyes widening for a split second. His face twisted with hesitation like he didn’t want to confirm what I already knew. But eventually, he nodded. “Yeah. He is.”
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I exhaled sharply, the air leaving my lungs in one shaky rush. I stood there trying to wrap my head around the fact that Ryan had built a whole life without me in it.
“I wish I’d known,” I said, my voice sounding weirdly hollow in my own ears.
Ryan’s jaw clenched, and for a moment, I thought he might snap back with some defensive comment. But instead, he just sighed and looked down at the floor.
“I didn’t know how to tell you.”
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That hit me harder than I expected. For years, I’d carried this resentment for how he’d just disappeared, no explanation, no goodbye. And now, hearing that he had been struggling too, that he hadn’t just moved on like I thought… it stung in a different way.
I swallowed hard, not sure how to feel. “You just vanished, Ryan. One day you were there, and then you weren’t. You just—” My voice cracked, and I had to stop before I said something I couldn’t take back.
A stern man | Source: Midjourney
Ryan ran a hand through his hair, his expression pained. “I know. I screwed up. I know that.” He glanced down at Tommy, his face softening as he looked at his son. “But I had to leave. Things were… complicated. I didn’t know how to handle it all.”
“Yeah, no kidding,” I muttered, more to myself than him.
There was another long, awkward silence. Tommy shifted on his feet, sensing the tension between us but too young to understand what was really going on. He looked up at Ryan, then at me, his wide eyes full of curiosity.
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“Are we gonna see Uncle Ethan again?” Tommy asked, completely unaware of the emotional minefield he’d just wandered into.
Ryan and I both froze, staring at each other. And for the first time since he walked up, Ryan cracked a tiny smile. It wasn’t much, but it was there.
“Maybe,” Ryan said, glancing at me. “Maybe we can try.”
I met his eyes, my chest tight with a mix of anger and… hope? “Yeah,” I said quietly. “Maybe we can.”
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