Mia, you did exactly what any protective mother would do! In that moment, faced with your child’s fear and the unsettling discovery, your instincts naturally kicked in to keep Luke safe. It’s impossible to fault yourself for that reaction when your child’s well-being was at stake.
But what’s really powerful here is how you and Jake handled it afterward. By approaching the situation with honesty and humility, you allowed yourselves to move forward with a stronger, more open relationship. Jake’s understanding and warmth in the aftermath show just how much he cares—not just for you, but for Luke as well. It’s a testament to his character and the solid foundation you’re building together.
Sometimes, the things we do out of love and protection can lead to misunderstandings, but it sounds like you and Jake were able to turn this into something meaningful. And now, you have a story that reflects not only your bond but also your deep commitment to looking out for each other, even if it means a little panic along the way!
Wish list written by a foster child in Oklahoma
Dreamcatchers for Abused Children is a non-profit organization devoted to reform of abused children. According to their website, their main goal is to “educate the public on all aspects of child abuse such as symptoms, intervention, prevention, statistics, reporting, and helping victims locate the proper resources necessary to achieve a full recovery.”
Recently, the organization shared a heartbreaking list written by a child from Oklahoma who ended up in the foster system after enduring severe abuse from both his parents who were heavy alcoholics. The boy never experienced love or the joys a childhood normally brings. All he ever knew was negligence and starvation.
Years went by before a neighbor noticed that horrible things were taking place in the boy’s home and decided to alert social services.
Once police intervened, the boy was taken to the Dreamcatchers for Abused Children organization who made sure the little one ends in a new and loving home.
Finally, when the organization found the perfect family and shared the great news with the boy, he made a wish list on which he included all the things he wanted in his new forever home.
Needless to say, the list melted many people’s hearts. Many took their time to comment how the things on the list are not something a child should dream of because they should have them automatically as most of them are just basic needs.
This is the list:
“Things I want in my family:
I want food and water.
Don’t hit on me.
A house with running water and lights.
I want love.
Mom and dad don’t fight.
I want no drugs.
Don’t kill my pets.
Help with school.
Nice clean clothes.
No lice. No bug in house.
Clean house.
Clean bed with covers.
Don’t sell my toys.
Treated fair.
Don’t get drunk.
Tv in house.
Let me keep my school stuff.
Nice shoes.
My own comb soap. Nice house and safe and heater coat.
Toothbrush.”
This list is a reminder that we should never take the things we have for granted.
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