Sabrina, an 18-year-old girl, felt ashamed of her father, Pete, a coal miner. With her graduation party just two days away, she was determined to keep him from attending. The thought of his sooty face and coal-stained hands embarrassed her; she feared that her friends would mock her because of him.
When Pete came home with two gifts, a stunning dress and a suit for himself, Sabrina thanked him but quickly expressed her wish for him not to come to the ceremony. She believed that her friends came from prestigious backgrounds and didn’t want her father to detract from her special day. Hurt by her words, Pete silently respected her wishes, even though he was eager to celebrate her accomplishment.
On graduation day, Sabrina arranged for a friend to drive her, insisting again that Pete stay away. However, he couldn’t bear to miss such a monumental moment in her life. Sneaking into the event, he took a seat in the parents’ section, excitedly cheering for her.
When the time came for Sabrina to receive her diploma, Pete jumped up to film her, shouting words of pride. Sabrina was mortified to see him there and wished the ceremony would end. Suddenly, the host called Pete to the stage. Confused and anxious, Sabrina watched as her father took the microphone.
He began by showcasing a heartfelt slideshow filled with memories of their life together, including pictures from her childhood. As the images played, he expressed his love for her, recalling her mother and emphasizing how proud he was of Sabrina’s achievements.
Overcome with emotion, Sabrina began to cry. She ran to her father, apologizing for her harsh words. In that moment, she realized how much he had sacrificed for her and that his love had never wavered, despite her previous shame.
As they embraced, Pete revealed a long-kept secret: her mother was alive and living nearby. This revelation shocked Sabrina, who had always believed her mother was dead. Pete explained that he raised her alone after their divorce, as her mother had insisted he could choose to keep her or leave her behind.
Sabrina, feeling a mix of regret and gratitude, apologized for her earlier behavior. She recognized the depth of her father’s sacrifices and the love he had poured into raising her. From that day on, she no longer felt ashamed of Pete; instead, she was proud to be his daughter. The experience taught her to appreciate the sacrifices made by those who love her, understanding that true worth lies in character, not appearance.
I’m 18 and obsessed with using sunbeds… but people online are saying I look “burnt to a crisp.”
Megan Blain, an 18-year-old who’s hooked on sunbeds, says she won’t stop tanning, even though online trolls are constantly insulting her. They’ve compared her skin to a “dirty 2p coin,” but she feels stuck in a tanning habit she can’t break.
Megan, from Seaham, County Durham, started using sunbeds at 16 to keep a tan all year. She ditched fake tan products for daily sunbed sessions and even began using tanning injections to get a darker glow. Although she didn’t know much about the risks, she spent up to 30 minutes on sunbeds, sometimes using baby oil to boost the effect.
Teenager Megan Blain, 18, has admitted to being addicted to sunbeds, despite facing harsh criticism online and noticing concerning changes to her skin
Megan said, “I liked how I looked with a tan. I wear bright colors, and the tan made them stand out more. Once I saw how good it looked, I started going to the sunbeds more often.”
But her intense tanning routine has raised health concerns. Megan now admits she’s addicted and has tried to cut back on sunbed use.
She also says the tanning injections make her feel sick, and she’s noticed a strange patch on her skin that changes size. Even though she’s scared it could be cancer, she hasn’t stopped tanning yet. Megan has tried to go to the doctor several times but gets too nervous to go inside.
“I’m the type of person who worries about everything, so it’s strange that I’m not more worried about this patch. I know it could be melanoma, but I still use sunbeds, which shows it’s an addiction. I never feel dark enough,” she explained.
She says she’s stuck in a cycle of overusing sunbeds and taking injections that make her feel sick and unable to eat. She used to go every day, but now she goes about four times a week.
Despite getting negative attention from strangers, with some saying she looks like a “burnt chip” or a “cremated” version of herself, Megan still can’t imagine life without tanning beds.
Megan said, “Everywhere I go, people stare at me. When they say I’m dark, I don’t believe them. I don’t feel dark at all, like I can’t see it myself.”
She admits she wants to stop using sunbeds one day, but she can’t imagine quitting. “I wouldn’t recommend this to anyone because you could get addicted without even realizing it, like I did,” she warned.
Megan has tried to cut down, now only using sunbeds four times a week, and she’s using her TikTok platform to warn younger people about the dangers of sunbed addiction. She’s especially worried because more young people seem to be using sunbeds than older ones, and she knows how easy it is to get hooked.
However, Megan has also faced online trolls who make fun of her tan. Some compare her to “burnt chips” or say her skin looks like a dirty “2p coin.” One person even asked if the sunbeds “cremated” her.
While Megan’s views on tanning have changed, she still struggles to break her habit of using UV lights.
Megan said, “After two years, I’ve changed my mind about sunbeds. If I could go back, I’d never start. Now, it’s not even about wanting to be tan anymore—I just feel like I have to use them.”
She explained that once she’s on the sunbed, it’s hard to turn it off. “I don’t even like using them anymore, I actually dread it, but I feel like I physically can’t stop.”
Another tanning addict, Fionnghuala Maguire, 35, from Belfast, shared her story, saying she feels “lucky to be alive” after using sunbeds almost every day for 15 years. She started at 14 and never used sunscreen during that time. Fionnghuala is now warning others not to make the same mistake, having been hooked on tanning and going to salons up to seven days a week at the height of her addiction.
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