During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Michael Strahan’s Daughter Reveals Heartbreaking Brain Cancer Struggle!
Michael Strahan’s daughter, Isabella, recently talked openly about her ongoing fight with brain cancer. In a heartfelt video on her YouTube channel called “Vlog 8: Recovering from Chemo at home,” the brave 20-year-old described the intense physical pain she’s going through during her treatment.
Isabella explained how agonizing the pain is, comparing it to a “heart attack.” She talked about trying to ease her headache by using an ice pack on her newly shaved head. She honestly shared, “Everything hurts,” and mentioned how her eyes, mouth, and jaw feel strained.
Isabella bravely shared about the intense pain she’s experiencing. She described her eyes feeling strained and painful when she looks to the sides. She compared the discomfort in her mouth to having all her teeth pulled out without replacements, saying even her jaw and tongue hurt when she drinks water.
Isabella admitted she would rather have radiation or brain surgery than endure chemotherapy because of the extreme pain it causes her. She called this journey the toughest and longest she’s faced, expressing worries about possible complications like heart pain, vision loss, or tooth decay.
Despite these challenges, Isabella is grateful to be home and sleeping in her own bed after being in the hospital. While she felt safe there, she finds comfort in familiar surroundings. Her vlog also showed moments from her hospital stay and special times with her father, Michael Strahan, and her twin sister, Sophia.
Isabella shared this update after she and her father talked about her illness on Good Morning America. She explained how she first noticed headaches and feeling sick, but didn’t worry until she woke up one day throwing up blood. Doctors later found out she had a serious brain tumor called a medulloblastoma. Michael Strahan was away from Good Morning America for more than three weeks because of “personal family matters,” though he didn’t say exactly what was happening.
Even with all these challenges, Isabella is staying strong. She finished her last round of radiation treatment in January after freezing her eggs because of her illness. Our thoughts are with Isabella and her family during this difficult time.
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