I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
Hollywood Legend Clint Eastwood’s Secret Life Finally Revealed
Clint Eastwood, a legendary movie star and director known for his strong and masculine image, has thrilled audiences for decades. But at 89, he shared a personal story he had kept secret for nearly sixty years. This secret links him to one of his most famous movies and gives insight into his fascinating life.
Early Life and Challenges
Born in 1930 during the Great Depression, Clint Eastwood grew up facing many hardships. His family moved often, and his father worked as a steelworker. Despite these struggles, Eastwood stood out for his tall height of 6 feet 4 inches and earned the nickname “Samson” from an early age.
A Scary Experience
Before he became famous, Clint Eastwood worked as a lifeguard in Seattle after finishing high school. But an incredible and little-known event happened when he was only 21. Eastwood was on a World War II Navy plane that crashed into the Pacific Ocean. Stranded in the water, he swam for miles toward the shore, unsure if he would make it. Looking back on that day, he later said, “I remember thinking, ‘Well, 21 is not as long as a person wants to live.’”
Inspiration from Real Life
This scary event had a lasting effect on Eastwood’s career. When he became a director, he drew from his own experience to create the 2016 film *Sully: Miracle on the Hudson*, which starred Tom Hanks. The movie tells the true story of the emergency landing of US Airways Flight 1549 on the Hudson River in 2009, where all 155 people survived.
The Story of Captain Sully
While the amazing landing impressed everyone, Eastwood was also deeply moved by what happened afterward and by Captain Chesley “Sully” Sullenberger’s character. Sully’s ability to stay calm, make quick decisions, and solve problems without panicking left a big impression on Eastwood. The contrast between Sully’s brave actions and the investigators’ later questioning of his decisions made it a powerful story for film.
A Living Legend
Clint Eastwood’s long and impressive career has made him a lasting icon in the film world. Even at 89, he keeps working and surprising audiences with his skill and passion, showing that true talent has no age limits.
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