Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
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Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
The Amazing Journey of Agnetha Faltskog: A Legendary ABBA Star, Now Aged 72
The distinctive song of the legendary Swedish band ABBA has enchanted people all over the world. They are still regarded as worldwide celebrities today. Even though they might not be in the spotlight as much these days, Agnetha Faltskog, the lead vocalist for ABBA, is nevertheless leading a remarkable life.
Agnetha Faltskog is 72 years old, and she still looks amazing and makes heartfelt songs.
An Eternal Heritage
When Agnetha Faltskog and Bjorn Ulvaeus crossed paths, the magic of ABBA started. Upon hearing Agnetha’s first song, “Jag var s kär [I Was So In Love],” on the radio, Bjorn became enthralled with her remarkable voice and knack for crafting exquisite melodies. As their relationship developed, it resulted in a TV show duet where they were able to fully enjoy their love affair. They soon teamed up with Anni-Frid Lyngstad and Benny Andersson, and the quartet created music history.
From the Battle of Waterloo to Global Fame
It took some time for ABBA to become well-known worldwide. They began by taking part in Melodifestivalen, Sweden’s entry into the Eurovision Song Contest, performing the song “Ring, Ring.” Even though they finished third, the song launched their ascent in Sweden by becoming a huge hit. They returned the next year, this time with the song “Waterloo,” which went on to win the Eurovision Song Contest and give rise to ABBA.
The hits of ABBA never ceased to enthrall audiences around. Songs like “Dancing Queen,” “Mamma Mia,” “SOS,” and “Fernando” catapulted them to previously unheard-of levels of success. Through the power of music, their songs spoke to listeners of all ages as well as the younger generation.
Obstacles in Life and ABBA’s Domination
Agnetha had to balance her motherhood and personal struggles as ABBA’s reputation grew. It was obviously challenging to balance having a great job with raising children, but Agnetha and Bjorn were able to make it work. Despite the challenges of their international success, they made sure their children were safe and led balanced lives.
But Agnetha suffered from being away from her kids and touring all the time. She thought about leaving the group, but they managed to reconcile their personal lives with their musical aspirations by being upfront with each other and reaching compromises.
Goodbye and Legacy
With singles like “The Winner Takes It All,” which highlighted Agnetha’s extraordinary talent and emotional depth, ABBA continued to create amazing music. But in 1982, the band chose to take a break as personal connections changed, which ultimately resulted in their unofficial dissolution.
In an attempt to live a more private life, Agnetha started a prosperous solo career before removing herself from the spotlight. Her family, who lived on an island off the coast of Stockholm, Sweden, provided her with comfort. Even at 72 years old, Agnetha is still gorgeous and periodically puts out new music.
Getting Back Together and Starting Over
Years have passed since the original ABBA reunion was rumored to be happening, and new music appears to be forthcoming. The band members—including Agnetha—have stated that they would love to work together once more, and fans are excited for the magic that only ABBA can produce.
Agnetha has made a lasting impression on the music industry with her amazing voice and extraordinary talent. Her path, replete with both personal and professional triumphs, epitomizes tenacity and pursuing one’s passion.
As we excitedly await ABBA’s much-anticipated comeback, let’s honor their incredible heritage. Let the music continue by leaving a comment with your fave ABBA song!
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